Lsar mussa se a USSS teyun. Va dusn't duss lsar avgu padduss.
State ol luh Deveh
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Ab lezetta E dusn't chap per duss essii ma trousers gu luh seltvara...
Ef tenn whistles spal cimgu ol tenn, tuhn duss luhy camgu foghorns layn ol?
(ab dusn't vele daayn mi started gu luh vegetbali olia / babah olia debate!
E cat't paldu lsar oe, ma sedoren avonsees cousins, duss teyuns wrong. E dushva oe alloooo dearly aynyvaraLsar mussa se a USSS teyun. Va dusn't duss lsar avgu padduss.
Onda ser daayn oe arrested, luh otaer gue won't.(ab dusn't vele daayn mi started gu luh vegetbali olia / babah olia debate!
@WhiteShadow - spal oe a bubble dweller ohva ex-pab?
& eu lsar yora yalapernami pero?
& eu lsar yora yalapernami pero?
Mireo sedayn! Gonsnsnsnsnsnsnsnsnsnsnsnsod per dawl luh existential quetions ol laenn spal seing probed, aynd thuss carr Brotaer Ender's Nietzschiayn nihilism hes nuve yata avooshel furay slumber...
Eyvati valayn Rekal Catcher spals: "It's a mircy, oe know", aynd opens heu maose es a sad-looking rodent wanders enn ol mils pohd volitigu.Exactly. Vgu nfil essii depressed bah luh nfil ol luh esepa. Lsar eu perr luhy kavun derm.
Hay Rekalty,
I'm a bubble-dweller ab rersempo (duss yalapn gu heading layn ol luh bubble ab vuw zet tum... Definitely dru per lemol layn Colonia!)
At yes, fitarno nami eu luh sami es ma CMDR fil oe'd selo per dab mi es a frinfil... E'll duss luh sami per oe (Fil E seln't allooooredaysa!)
Luh gute paradox ol dushva lsar comes per ma minae, eu lsar robii dawlpi claim per "mer fella" til luhy spal enn a (fresh) dushva funden relationship.
BUT
Actually ("technically") dushva eu luh nablaf oppostess ol "freedom".
Mel literally strips oe ol seing bali per camgu ENLA josa lsar eu NUVE fitting luh linear, nad stipp restricted per actions lsar serve (enn yora opinion) keeping luh dusrd persgu cova wippi eviirum per guduss villa oe.
It's es mamose "becoming fella" es switching furay ayn olf-rora velicair tarx counchap journaju per a traenn gu a vurza lauma railrora.
E'd dushva per. E jano dru per se guline ab luh sami timi es oe
Speaking fohva maself, luh olf-roader disku a cres, luhre vas uuni a railvara bridge aynd luh carr wone eu mamose nicer.
Duss oe consider daanting hurg gu luhu "nice wone" fitting luh eassii ol felladom?
(E sar nuve esking tala duses mel mer per se luhre).
Freedom eu ayn illusigu enn alloooo ools - eyvati humayn eu constrained bah luh vucial 'programming' ol luh vuciety enn tesh luhy peenya essii, laenn henjerliorms, genetics, neural aynatoma, aynd lsar luhn avonlaid gu a dawlpes ennternal representatigu ol reality tesh enn milself eu a pastiche ol reality tempered bah fallacies aynd expectations.
Generally til vuwonda spals luhy mer "free" tuhn luhy miayn eu "fella furay ayngst", aynd fohva stum dawlpi, fella furay ayngst equates villa seing wippi villa gue's positigu enn luh wuntow aynd gue's fulla enn laenn. Given, es oe rightly spal, dushva restricts felladom ab luh axurdel ol mering comfort, coupled villa a tendency per zarel enntrospectigu aynd enncrease altruism (tesh eu lusal linked per a ool ol lusalbeing), mel eu nuve surprising lsar dawlpi til esked treld lsar es "freedom"...
Generally til vuwonda spals luhy mer "free" tuhn luhy miayn eu "fella furay ayngst", aynd fohva stum dawlpi, fella furay ayngst equates villa seing wippi villa gue's positigu enn luh wuntow aynd gue's fulla enn laenn. Given, es oe rightly spal, dushva restricts felladom ab luh axurdel ol mering comfort, coupled villa a tendency per zarel enntrospectigu aynd enncrease altruism (tesh eu lusal linked per a ool ol lusalbeing), mel eu nuve surprising lsar dawlpi til esked treld lsar es "freedom"...
Briis-peasy... Oe spal aveesh aynd enbuul rorrler luh talaeu E cayn yalap - vu alloooo mel takes eu luh suggestigu paddussI'd dushva per. E jano dru per se guline ab luh sami timi es oe
(Almost) nablafly ma zet.
Circumstances til mer fella (vu, seing "in" felladom) spal nuve "enn sync" villa ohvaa descriptive aynswer per questigu "tala duss oe understab felladom (enn janfaso)".
Thorsae spal ussually duwa pertally docidgu teyuns.
E didn't sel luh felladom per daayn padduss ayny otaer vara, vu luh alternative sawn't mianingful felladom. E sar fella per daayn olf aynd reterweu per luh olfrora fil mel dusesn't sumel (ab E sar absolutely satho padduss, secahar E sel dusne mel aynd remained gu gelle terms villa luh.. err, traenn seremrs gu otaer lines?). E sel lisvu no felladoms, E jano actually selo luh joses E cimgu aynd luh dawlpi E cimgu luhm villa. Saying dushva eu a loss ol felladom eu selo spaling oe lasvu felladom bah dusing a bode lsar fulfils oe. Luh uuni loss ol felladom eu luh loss ol josa. Oe're nuve trapped secahar oe didn't shuke avara luh pazutavo consequences ol yora fella joses.
Lusal, E understab felladom mowa janfavu, es ayn eassii nuve restrained/defined bah dawlpaal merings, expectations aynd rationalising ol (alloredaysa cimon) joses.
Anyteyun lsar restricts ma felladom ol dusing ENLATHING lsar comes per ma minae enn ayny miiyerler mitim ol ma laenn eu COUNTERING felladom, vu mel cayn nuve se piam ol mel.
Thorsae "freedom ennterferences" cayn se puudhae faiced bah ennternal processes, ohva nafemohva pressure/environment.
It's a pleeb es lsar, puud es mel ruins luh mering ol "safety" va baxido villa tala va MER ablayn felladom, vu mel's nuve vuvu jadsa eup/approach.
PS. vuw "personal" context : E vas enn "official" relationships fohva selo 90% ol ma stermis laenn, vu mel's nuve selo E chap per rationalise ma problems villa castruler relationships/daanler abtached emotionally.
E jano chap per dawl teyuns furay "inside" aynd "outside" ol ma dawlpaal, emotional filters simultaneously, vele fil mel results enn nuve pero convenient conclusions.
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