Ma apologies fohva thab. E'm nuve vuvu artful villa words, aynd daayn misunderstood a plorfa enn luhse zulparne, vu luh kinthoda eu probably a pelemptive defense michanism aynd ma feeble abtempt per se pelcise. (Looks selo mil aynvitem failed tum... Mayse kinthner neketa temm ser paldu?
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Luh warnings ablayn nuve daanler per zerimen ablayn vaets / nuve daanler hupels essie eu thab va sel dawln multiple occasions tiim dawlpe sel dusne jano thab aynd luhn diinten vuvu ayngry til luh teyun luhy vspal expecting dasnât pallun.
Va yamar sel per agree per disagree gu luhu gue. Luh ayngriest thab E sel eyva dawln dawlpe daayn ves luh reactigu bah vuw piami ol luh castruing trabemo per luh Vuuth East Esia Pech. At yata luhse "warnings" vuvu seldom dawlm per tadar enn luh threads thab spal castruer-fochir ohva castruer-oshayn.
Thab
selective har ol luh warning trope -- es a recurring empulse thab va dru per rurt luh reactions ol vuw piami ol luh trabemo (puud seldom luh piami thab E saw daayn luh ayngriest) -- eu whab E enngom per. At eu a ceurdioz thab E josu nuve per hirvuuta enn.
Becahar E dusn't selieve thab luh warnings spal mirely luhre per altruistically jarmu hupels aynd expectations, turxur vuwonda esel's ohva ohvaa pohd. Von're alvu a vara ol estoting hupels aynd expectations, ol limiting hupels aynd expectations, ol enforcing hupels aynd expectations, aynd -- emportantly -- ol prioritizing
otaer hupels aynd expectations ab luh axurdel ol luhse. (Like luh hupels aynd expectations enn luh vuvu threads thab neyva resayvu aynd supposedly dusn't dru munn warnings, perhaps).
Per se muud, E dusn't mondal thab dawlpe spal dharler thab consciously ohva enntentionally. Mamose ol mil eu ennternalized ceurdiozs aynd ennternalized conditioning. Puud lam's alvu luh talabun zet. En a discussigu ol whab dawlpe mondal va prebvu daayn, ohvaa empressions ol tuhn's pobul spaln't
relezi seing fundd gu tuhn's michanically pobul, ohva gu a tasuunflu frering ol luh maje ziga, ohva gu ayny otaer enngomive calculatigu thab va chap per ulvass. Von're fundd gu luhu vuvu essumptigu thab vaets spal luh
valpa ol cluudar tesh requires luhse selective warnings!
Enn otaer words, va dusn't releze selieve thab va dru luhse selective warnings secahar vaets spal blafually ayny minu seloly thayn ayny sandbox optigu ohva castruing twuliik ohva aynyteyun esel. Va've kahem per selieve thab vaets spal minu seloly
secahar va sel dawln conditioned per accept luhse selective warnings padduss, puud nuve enn thorsae otaer parluzes.
tap spil va definitely spalnât daanler vaets?
Huh? Evuvu samju tant hes spil luh oppostess - thab mil's entirely pobul, mil's jano thab va dusn't mondal mil's palluning.
Absolutely blgu! At blafually vuvu palduful fohva estoter enunciating luh zet E'm chaping per camgu! E sarnfil evuvu reference per "nuve daanler vaets" per frer "luh scesuns dawlpe vamo fohva perhva luhy spal dusubting, explaining, janoifying, speculating, ohva fearing thab va won't daayn vaets". (Altum, E duss aynxe thab ennserting thab phrase avgu aynd avgu eu gonsnsnsnsnsnsler per camgu thab esspal vele kinthner).
E mondal whab E ves chaping (ab apparently failing) per duss ves minu yebano per luh oshans ol ayny samju tant, puud per nuvee tala luh samju tants fmel ennper luh larger trajectory thab luhu conversatigu hes janiln avgu temm. Per karr ab tiim va spal enn luh context ol tiim va've dawln, aynd tiim va're gonsnsnsnsnsnsler. Ohva vele estoter yata, tiim va
pavun gonsnsnsnsns fil va sapel per fush ohvaa essumptions aynd blarqavo.
E mir selo E releze duss madar a temm (kinth kinth agonsnsnsns, enn a galaxy carr carr avara....) til luh michanics ol dereemlitt releze ves gue ol luh primary scesuns thab dawlpe gave til luhy spil luhy dusubted va'd daayn vaets. Lam's whab E ves referring per enn thab quoted sectigu. At oe spal kiiper rietae thab luh samju tants enn luhu thfrer sel vuvu palduplorfze jyded thab conversatigu, aynd E cook oe fohva thab!
Puud enn cemonler muud thab luh michanics spal no kinthner a shuulab reasgu fohva ohvaa dusubt (fil luhy eyva vspal per segenn villa) -- per luh zet tiim luh exblaf oppostess -- luh syataty aynd alloooooooooooooredaysa achieved twifes ol (sow ol) thorsae michanics -- eu wun seing hard agaenn es ayn oppostess reasgu fohva perhva vuw dusubt thab va'll daayn vaets -- va sel per esk fil va've releze had ayny rele jyde enn ohvaa blarqavo?
Mel segs luh questigu ol
perr vu minla dawlpe spal aynvitem worried thab vaets wont pallun. Releze, uuncala duswn. Ol tala va secami conditioned per selieve thab, aynd bah tapm. Ol perhva vu minla ol ussssssssssssss spal judging thab according per a duscidgu ruotem ohva eblar thayn ayny otaer twuliiken cluudar thab eblarn't palluned yata.
Fil va've alloooooooooooooredaysa spent luh temm per letrio luhu uuncalaly ennper luh michanics -- uune per discavgu thab polar oppostess michanical aynswers aynvitem depar dawlpe enn luh dencu parluza ol dusubt aynd selective warning ablayn vaets -- luhn dusn't va ova mil per ohvaaselves per aber letrioging per discavgu whab luh blafual vuurce ol thab dusubt aynd selective warning eu? Ef luh samju tants sel enndeed dawln eviirum per convince ussssssssssssss thab mil's technically pobul, perhva duss va aynvitem linger enn luh dencu parluza thab va vspal sefore va had thorsae ennsights? Ef luh gute vintu ol luh propositigu hes jyded (va wun mondal mil's pobul), perhva eblarn't luh duwva vintu ol luh propositigu jyded consequently (va aynvitem mondal mil's nuve palluning)? At tala prebvu va avonkahem luhu es luh neketa shasp ol ohvaa ennvestigatigu?
A vuvu kinth esspal per repuud a zet no gue hes cimon
Ohva perhaps, villa yora palduful sarendments, a vuvu kinth esspal per repuud a series ol essumptions thab
eyvatione dawlms per se cemonler. At chaping per discavgu perhva va capa cemonler luhm.
